Horn, Hilux and mob mentality on the Avenue


There is a local video making the rounds that has me quite disturbed. The video appears to have been shot on Ariapita Avenue, Woodbrook in the wee hours of morning on Sunday March 29. (Click HERE to view video).

It starts with an irate female violently venting her frustrations on the bonnet and headlights of a black Toyota HiLux pick-up truck, in full view of onlookers on either side of the roadway. I must warn you, up front, that the video does contain some coarse language.

Based on the running commentary provided by onlookers, it appears that the young lady had just caught her boyfriend in flagrante delicto with the outside woman, made a public ruckus and was preventing him and the outside woman from fleeing the scene in his vehicle.

Photo: I only want to talk...
Photo: I only want to talk…

As you can see, the jilted lover went to town on the vehicle. She ripped off the windshield wiper and then the front number plate and used them to scrape, scratch and smash the van before it could be driven away.


Further on in, you see that the attack on the vehicle escalated as the woman used bottles to smash against and throw at the van.

A deserved outcome for a ‘horn’, right? Guy got caught and received his immediate comeuppance, right?

My concern is with how that situation escalated during the course of the video. I saw one brave soul actively tried to stop the destruction (0:57) and calm the scene down. Unfortunately, the peacemaker was physically discouraged by another onlooker—who appeared to be a friend of the assailant—from intervening. Throughout the saga, the majority of the crowd goaded the woman into continuing her attack—or ‘chained her up’ as we say—and verbally fuelling her rage.

And of course, a plethora of smartphones were seen held aloft recording the incident.

What I cannot fathom is why some of the crowd members deliberately inserted themselves into the story. After the woman derived maximum use from the number plate, which she transformed to a club, a nearby female videographer offered her an empty beer bottle to use as a weapon (3:11).

Gleefully accepted, she chucked the bottle at the windscreen. More bottles, willingly volunteered by other crowd members, soon followed. Some just struck the vehicle while others smashed on impact.

The hapless driver’s escape bid continued to be hindered as the woman refused to remove herself from the vehicle’s path.

While infidelity is an everyday phenomenon, scenes such as these are, thankfully, not as commonplace. And it is frightening that, in addition to urging the woman to “mash it up”, the crowd—which had no stake in the dispute save for the raw entertainment value—offered her missiles to hurl at the van. This is the development that disturbs me most; the manifestation of mob mentality.

Photo: Don't take that girl!
Photo: Don’t take that girl!

The woman did not seek out bottles to  further her onslaught; the crowd spontaneously provided them to her. I shudder to think what would have happened if she had somehow managed to completely smash through the windshield, exposing the driver and the alleged outside woman.

Would the supply of bottles have ceased then?

That for me is the true tragedy of this situation. The public and open display of violence, as eye-catching and  entertaining as it was, embarrassed all three main players in the scenario—the woman, the man and the purported outside fling.

However, the crowd’s unbidden eagerness to ensure that the scene perpetuated and intensified through their active participation brought shame directly to themselves as well.

 

Editor’s note: Click HERE to read more blogs from Damian Scott. Or HERE to see the Ariapita incident.

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Damian R. Scott is an ICT professional and a lifelong student (and part-time teacher) of language and communication. As Scotty Ranking, he frequently comments on topical issues of the day, dispensing knowledge to all and sundry.

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199 comments

  1. I agree with dat post 100 an 1%

  2. This is Trinidad and Tobago in the 21st century. Shame? Please…the concept is alien to us. We’ll do it again. Point and laugh at the train wreck.

  3. Not I, I absolve no one of their responsibility to behave within the confines of the law and common decency.

    See all those murders the police can’t solve?
    At least half of them were caused by ungoverned emotion.

  4. I have no problem with the jilted lover venting. Who feels it knows it. What disturbed me, was the audience’s participation in the mêlée and the provision of missiles to launch at the vehicle? Clearly, the woman was somewhat intoxicated, so that helped in fuelling her anger. What if one of the said bottles thrown had missed the vehicle and landed on a bystander? I guess a ‘horn’ brings out the worst in people.

  5. Woman prove herself to b classless BTW where was the police :/

  6. Raheema Sayyid-Andrews

    Peer pressure 2.0 liberally seasoned with alcohol
    What those camera-crazies needed at that moment was to take a selfie to capture their horns and forked tails.
    Wonderfully put, Damien

  7. There are lessons to learn from this ,My lesson is ” I will not be Horning “

  8. Does the driver of the Hilux need to press charges for the Police to lock her up, along with those who provided bottles, since it’s all on tape? People see a woman attacking a van and never even stop to think she could just be a stalker or jilted ex or something. She must have been a nice quiet girl treated badly by the evil guy cause she seemed such a level-headed classy lady, after all. She know which tree to climb. I know at least 5 fellas who would have jumped out that van.

  9. I’m just happy no girl can jump on the thread and give me a “Darryl Heeralal-style” shout out… But let me not push my luck! Lol

  10. Glad I’m an old timer now. No more drama like Mary J…

  11. Oh losh Wayne Gregory Brooks. Girl make rude boy reverse into traffic and corner a car yes.
    She looked too cool. I would quicker take my chances with the girl with the license plate!

  12. Lasana you surely spend too much time indoors 🙂

  13. Trinis love ah bacchanal yes

  14. Wow all paid Lasana…..can’t go wrong with that sort of vacation but then again Lol

  15. Mel Lissa, I’m still assuming it isn’t her van. Where is Verna St Rose with those all expenses paid vacation packages to St Ann’s when you need her? :-/

  16. I filmed a similar ‘confrontation’ about 3 years ago in front Frankie’s. I posted it on my YouTube channel. Guy lost both wiper blades but not other serious damage.

  17. Yes. Not to that magnitude but the dude look unassumingly dangerous

  18. ” similar fashion?”
    Fighting? Sterling?

  19. Can’t comment on ownership but I have witnessed a certain couple in a hilux on more than one occasion in similar fashion.

  20. Depending on whose name the van’s on, no?

  21. Is there a charge for vandalizing one’s own vehicle? I think not

  22. Mel Lissa, there might not be a book of what to do. But there sure is a book of what not to do. And that book’s in the police station.
    She get chained up to wreck her own car?! Sterling, whose van is it?

  23. I also bet not one of them would have done what she did if it was their man

  24. Damian, I bet she doesn’t even know them too

  25. Anyway she told her husband she’ll see him home, went back to her friend’s car and drove off. Only then did she vent. She eventually divorced him, although it took a while. He was rather shocked that she did

  26. REally will be the cheese standing alone. I’m certain not one of those who donated bottles to her cause will pitch in a red cent to help her with legal fees and damages.

  27. Yes Sterling, I understand he’s a real piece of work…she better watch out now

  28. It’s hard to be in a situation like that but a woman must keep her head on and not give the bastard any satisfaction in seeing her go ballistic

  29. Really terrible event, no joke in anything that happened there

  30. No Mel Lissa … you’re right about that…but she flipped the script on herself…to her own detriment…and her behaviour is the only one being called into question…and if charges are laid she will be the cheese that stands alone

  31. I also suspect that it’s someone I know..lol

  32. That vehicle looks vaguely familiar. And if it is who I think that could have been the safest avenue to vent. Another location and he was coming out swinging

  33. The woman was trying to explain that it was all innocent and they were just friends

  34. Nobody wrote the book/script on how we should handle these things …Jenny

  35. She told him she already had a ride and asked the woman if she forgot he’s married and apparently she doesn’t know what she could and could not do with a married man

  36. Nothing he was shocked to see her there

  37. Don’t leave us hanging…lol

  38. Listen..whether she was the hypotenuse, the opposite or the adjacent in this little love triangle her behaviour was lacking…and I hope that she is not allowed to escape the consequences of her actions….there is no excuse…she would have been better off staining her pillow with tears…like so many of us have done before her….

  39. The woman said she is having some issues with her man and wanted the husband advice. The husband was coming out the car to open the door of the back seat and told his wife to sit let him take her home

  40. and I bet he promised to be a good boy too ent?

  41. Me I’m just having fun off of two ppl oh make that three. Lol

  42. Know someone who experienced that once. She was pregnant at the time and saw her husband parked around the Savannah with a woman. She was with her friend going home at the time, calmly asked her friend to turn the car around. Her friend parked behind her husband’s car, she got out and walk to his car, knocked on his glass and asked him what the ass he doing park there with this woman (whom she knew by the way)

  43. Why is it so hard to believe that she’s the outside woman and she bought the van Lasana? I totally believe it’s possible
    ask Vernal!

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