Vaneisa: Be brave; be bigger; show respect—the secret to enduring success

Permit me to invite you to tag along on a short journey that fleetingly slips inside the minds and memories of a few legendary cricketers. Their conversations emanated from the landscape of cricket, but they are replete with insights into the broad tapestry of living.

I probably devote too much time to reading about and looking at the game of cricket. I can’t help but marvel at the bounty that has been made possible by technology.

Screenshot from video of the National Cricket League Season 2 opening night gala in Dallas, USA. Sachin Tendulkar, centre, and Brian Lara, right, being interviewed on the NCL USA‘s YouTube channel. Fair use.

I can’t help but be grateful to those who have collected and uploaded footage and interviews that are available with just a few clicks.

I browse, and with YouTube’s penchant for luring you down fascinating rabbit holes, the range of discoveries can happily hijack me.

At the beginning of October, Brian Lara and Sachin Tendulkar were part of a gala hosted by the National Cricket League to support domestic violence awareness.

Lara urged men to “step back and be bigger” in this rampant, global plague.

At the gala itself, he and Tendulkar reminisced about their careers.

Photo of a stamp featuring Sachin Tendulkar, Government of India, licensed under the Government Open Data License – India (GODL).

Asked about whether they were competitors who became friends, Tendulkar immediately responded: “Friends first and then competitors.” Tendulkar, four years younger than Lara, made his Test debut at 16.

“When I was 16,” said Lara, “I could not hit the ball to the boundary. I used to use the pace of the ball, get it down to third man, get it down to fine leg. But this young man was taking on the best bowlers in the world and thumping them.”

He said his respect for Tendulkar transcended everything else. Striking how Lara could identify his strategy at 16. Striking how often the word respect comes up in the conversation.

Brian Lara batting for West Indies against India at Kensington OvalBridgetownBarbados, 2002. Photo by Ukexpat on Wikimedia Commons (CC BY-SA 2.5).

Asked what he admired about Lara’s batting, Tendulkar said: “He was a Caribbean calypso. He carried that calypso on the field as well, great footwork. Michael Jackson came quite close to his footwork. I mean, he was simply unbelievable, and whereas my game was more of Indian classical music.”

Lara said: “If I had a son, I would want him to bat like Sachin Tendulkar.”

There was much more, but I want to mention one portion. Lara spoke about how he constructed an innings, especially those long, magnificent ones.

He talked about developing his confidence.

Brian Lara, Lord’s Bicentenary Anniversary Match, MCC vs Hertfordshire, June 22, 2014. Photo by Paul Hudson on Flickr (CC BY 2.0).

“Confidence was respecting each stage of my innings. I would walk out to bat, and I felt that I was a very vulnerable batter when I walk out to bat for the first half an hour. I would say a bowler has an 80 percent chance of getting me out. I’ve got a 20 percent chance of surviving.

“I felt the confidence and the respect of that situation for another half an hour. Change those numbers where a half an hour, an hour later, it’s 50-50. Four hours later, it’s 70-30 in favour of me.

“Two days later, it might be 100. So for me, confidence was the ability to respect each stage of my innings, get out of it, and to take control of the game or the innings that I’m playing.”

Screenshot from videoIanBishop Reveals Secrets of Cricket Commentary–Discipline, Humility & Behind-The-Scenes Stories’ on the ESPNcricinfo channel on YouTube. Fair use.

Talking about an innings stretching into two days seems far-fetched for our team these days, far less for one man’s occupation of the crease. One can also apply this capacity to think big, and to respect each stage of many life situations.

It recalled Ian Bishop’s comments around the same time on ESPNCricinfo.

“I want guys to stop being satisfied with 20s and 30s. The gold standard of Test cricket is for high-volume scores; hundreds. Whether the guys have that within them against top-class opposition, we need to start seeing that … time for the batters to hold their hand up.”

It speaks to respect for what they do and the discipline to keep working at their craft. Tendulkar said Muttiah Muralitharan spent 18 months working on his doosra. That discipline is no stranger to West Indies cricket, and I daresay, West Indian society, even if it has become estranged.

Screenshot from video ‘He’s One Of The Greatest One Day Players‘– Ravi Shastri, ICC Cricket World Cup 2019’, on the ICC channel on YouTube. Fair use.

Ravi Shastri, the former Indian allrounder, recently observed that although the West Indian team was known for flamboyance, “they were the most professional outfit. Like if a wicket went, by the time you come to the crease, they’ll all be in their positions.

“So you’re walking alone. You’re going past a Richards, or a Clive, and you’re going to the middle there, and Marshall is on the top of his mark.

“They’re all in positions, and you’re taking guard, and the crowd is getting up. ‘Come on, man. Bounce him, man. Maco kill him!’ They’re at you…”

In a recent Wisden interview with Wazim Akram, the Pakistani fast bowler of great repute, he’s asked if there was one thing he didn’t like about cricket currently.

“What I don’t like in cricket is politics… Sports should be kept away from politics. In league cricket, pick every player from every nation. Be brave. Be bigger. But that is not happening, unfortunately. And I think that’s where the ICC comes in.”

Screenshot from videoTeam India Refuses Handshakes After Beating Pakistan’ on the Firstpost channel on YouTube, September 15, 2025. Fair use.

He was speaking after the bizarre outcome of the Asia Cup when Indian and Pakistani finalists refused to shake hands, amid national tensions. I can’t understand why they agreed to play each other in the first place.

Inside these discussions reside many ideas about life, like being bigger. That’s why I compiled these snippets; our times demand that we envision ourselves with unlimited capacity, and we open our minds to unleashing it.

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One comment

  1. Interesting stuff but it won’t help West Indies. We don’t have what it takes to compete in red ball cricket.

    Any chance you might be able to get into the minds of successful white ball players? With more experienced—read smarter— players, we would probably have won the last two T20s vs New Zealand.

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