Live Wire: Sport Minister files for divorce from the truth; threatens to throw wife out of home

If chivalry really is dead, maybe the Police Service should consider bringing in Sport Minister Darryl Smith for questioning.

The Diego Martin Central MP set a new mark for family values today—and Mr Live Wire is thinking ‘skid mark’—when he took to Facebook to threaten to throw his wife of 12 years and mother of his four children out of the family home.

Smith’s public threat followed the leaking of a video which showed the super-sized sweetman getting frisky with former Ministry of Sport and Youth Affairs PRO Kate Balthazar.

Photo: Sport Minister Darryl Smith (right) takes a hands-on approach to his staffers, as he poses with then communications officer Kate Balthazar.

“Frisky” is relative, of course. Smith lay on his back on a couch—as though waiting for the tide to come back in—while Kate did all the legwork. Minus the kissing, it was probably a perfect metaphor for his time as Sport Minister so far.

Smith, who blamed his “ex wife” for the leaked video, claimed to be setting the record straight via the social media.

“The facts are as follows: I am the person in the video footage inside my own home,” stated Smith, who would have been spot on if he stopped right there. But he didn’t.

“It is imperative to note,” said the Sport Minister, “that my marriage was dissolved by Order of the Family Court more than seven (7) months ago…”

Only, it wasn’t. Smith began divorce proceedings in early 2017 but, Wired868 was reliably informed, is still married and will be for another two months at least.

The Sport Minister is separated but not divorced. But, like most politicians, he tried to have it both ways. So, without explicitly using the word “divorced” in his press statement, he referred to his partner as “ex-wife”.

Photo: Sport Minister Darryl Smith (right) makes a pass at Minister of Public Utilities Fitzgerald Hinds at the Hasely Crawford Stadium training ground on 20 January 2017.
Hinds did not press charges.
(Courtesy Sean Morrison/Wired868)

Not that Smith trying to have it both ways would come as a surprise to anyone who has followed his exploits at the Sport Ministry.

The inconvenient truth that Smith also neglected to mention in his statement was that the romantic interlude with his former employee—she has since swapped ministries—was taking place in the house that he shares, at present, with his wife while she was out.

Presumably without irony, Smith also said “my entire focus continues to be on the emotional well-being of my children” and followed that up with “my attorneys have written to [my wife] again, advising her that an application for an exclusion order will be forthcoming.”

So Smith will petition the court to have his wife and four children—ages nine, eight, six and three—tossed out ahead of schedule on the alleged grounds that she embarrassed him by leaking footage of what he got up to in their home.

Too bad Justice Rolston Nelson can’t take that one.

Photo: FIFA president Gianni Infantino (centre) and TTFA president David John-Williams (left) turn the sod at the Ato Boldon Stadium in Couva on 10 April 2017 while Sport Minister Darryl Smith, as usual, pretends to help.
(Courtesy Sean Morrison/Wired868)

Smith’s statement:

On Friday December 22nd 2017, specific video footage from my home security system was taken by my ex-wife and leaked via social media.

It is imperative to note that my marriage was dissolved by Order of the Family Court more than seven (7) months ago.

[…] My entire focus continues to be on the emotional well-being of my children but I have now been forced by this leak and the further embellishment of this story to clarify the facts.

The facts are as follows:

  1. I am the person in the video footage inside my own home.
  2. This was a family setting in which my father and other family members were present. The rest of video footage (deliberately not leaked) clearly portrays context.
  3. It is uncanny that the footage was leaked on the very day that the financial aspect of my divorce was finalised.

It is very unfortunate and quite sad, (but not the first time) that my ex-wife has revealed personal information to try and destabilise the family unit in this manner. Given that, my attorneys have written to her again, advising her that an application for an exclusion order will be forthcoming.

Photo: Trinidad and Tobago’s London Olympics 4×100 metre relay team of (from left) Richard Thompson, Emmanuel Callender, Marc Burns and Keston Bledman put on a brave face as they pose with Sport Minister Darryl Smith (centre) in a ceremony at The Anchorage, Carenage on 29 June 2016.
(Courtesy Allan V Crane/CA Images/Wired868)

Equally as shameful, but not surprisingly (sic), is that some of my political opponents on social media have chosen to use this to pontificate and preach about moral behaviour in public office for their own myopic and self-serving agendas.

I want to thank my family, friends, constituents and all of my well wishers for the numerous texts and calls of support.

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486 comments

  1. His wife sure voting UNC next elections!

  2. As an avid reader of your posts this is d most comments I ever see on any topic but Trinbago is a seven (7)day not nine any more.
    Plenty menz forget how long this nonsense going on with Barrel and that woman and citizens were paying directly or indirectly for. #thirdworldnation but she has unmitigated gall, belly like calabash side chick has become main chick. First world status in decades maybe n ah go leave it at that #leadershipcrisis

  3. So there is proof the woman is Kate?

    Didnt she resign from her permanent post? Now she has switched ministries?

  4. He is a nasty …classless ….cheating …piece of horse shit …but karma is real and it doesnt forget …..

  5. Funny enough when a former minister of sport was allegedly seen in a video with 2 women in a hotel room some years ago while being married I didn’t hear anyone on this forum condemned his actions ??? Is it that they are held to different standards just asking for a friend ….. The hypocrisy is overwhelming

  6. what part was belittling and bullying? the exclusion order?

    • I felt it was classless to put your intention to evict your wife on Facebook. Doing it is one thing but announcing it could only be an attempt to humiliate.
      And just as he took liberties with the truth when he used the term “ex wife” who knows what other half truths were in his statement. Just like his explanation of that Tobago trip was full of half truths.
      And then we remember his half hearted claim that his hand was photoshopped. This is a pattern.

    • Well let’s look carefully at what has taken place and is taking place. As a public figure he ought to have managed his affairs differently, however I’m sure that he has a side to his story. In so far as bullying by public statement I beg to differ. The video(s) being released would have forced his hand hence the statement. Is it safe to conclude that she leaked them, or at least agents of hers? His activity with his new partner and the impropriety given that she was his employee is another issue of itself. I would like to hear his side of the story. It is naturally assumed that he is the offender because his affair became public. As for attempting to humiliate the release of the footage started it so now it is probably become a tit for tat. The rightness or wrongness is debatable. Many offenses on his part for which he should answer but some of his actions are an unfortunate part of the acrimonious divorce process.

    • Nigel Clement how can we be sure it is his wife who released the video? Too many half truths innuendoes and falsehoods.

    • Dawn Foderingham I can’t be sure, but I’m looking at who would most likely have access and a motive. Pure conjecture on my part.

    • Nigel what is the thing we DO know for sure? That he made a statement threatening to throw out his wife. N’est pas?
      I’m sure these things could get nasty. But when he makes public statements, he is not just a husband. He is also a MP and Minister.

    • Just another sample example trini male

    • So Lasana, being unsure of who actually released the video (he likely would know better than any of us) you decided that he was “bullying” her by announcing that he’ll be getting a court order to have her leave, you also decided that he’s also putting his four kids out, and then you decided to insinuate yourself into the situation and choose sides , to even the scales, as you see it?

    • Smith decided this was newsworthy when he made a public statement. I wrote about that statement. Punto finale.

    • You wrote “about the statement” and included ‘facts’ of your own creation.

    • Lasana Liburd hence my saying he should be handling his affairs differently as a public figure. I’m just not going to jump on the condemnation wagon until I can hear more sides of this story. Insofar as threatening to throw out, taking a course of action acceptable within the legal framework does not constitute a threat. If he believes that he is rightfully entitled to the marital home I can’t fault him. There is so many directions this can go. If she has access to the home and abuses that access in some way I would want her out as well. Especially if that abuse succeeds in making our private issue (divorce proceedings) public. It wouldn’t be my course of action in this scenario but there is clearly significant angst and whether we agree with it or not he will have information that we don’t.

    • Nigel Clement the court is there to decide what is or isn’t fair and he is as entitled to use the courts as anyone else.
      But he can’t have it both ways as far as using the social media and press.

    • he never said he was putting out his kids

    • Lasana I maintain though that his hand was forced with the release. He felt he had to say something in his defence.

    • Nigel he might have felt the situation warranted a response. He has to take responsibility for the response he chose though.

    • Lasana, I agree that he might have opened the door to criticism. But we also have to be responsible in first choosing whether to enter, and then how far.

    • I agree that he might have opened the door to criticism. But we also have to be responsible in first choosing whether to enter, and then how far.

  7. Rose-Marie, the most important thing to me is when one has the influence to make a press statement that will be seized upon and published in every Media house in the country.
    And your partner doesn’t have that same clout.
    And you use that power to try to belittle your partner, leaving them with no means of redress other than through the courts which is slow and expensive…
    I see that as a form of bullying.
    And that’s why I responded to his press statement whereas I wasn’t interested enough in the story before, even though there was the video circulating.
    I have never liked bullying. Whether the victim is an athlete, the man on the streets or a soon-to-be ex wife.

  8. so Lasana you write this article or Mr Live Wire ?

  9. WOW this man is a sicko . Really ??? He putting his wife and four kids out their home??? He should get out and get a room.

  10. Well you better kiss your job goodbye yes! What a disgrace!

  11. Find out the reason why they get divorced and then same something don’t believe everything u c online

  12. You are disgraceful and disgusting as they come. But I’m not at all surprised. Follow the example of your leadership.

  13. MY OPINION is anything that is not illegal that is done in the confines of ones private residence is NOBODY’s BUSINESS. How many other pressing issues are there to report on. Miss me with that public figure Bs there ought to be sanctity and privacy in ones home. Clearly he and the Mrs are having issues and he has a relationship which is entirely his business and his alone. We cannot judge because we do not know what his “wife” and him have/had how many marriages do not work for whatever reason. I am not a fan or relative, I do not know the Minister at all but I am not going to speculate and cast aspersions I have a life and my own business to mind. Move on!

  14. Ok she need to find a space for her and their children. Get a life

  15. Lasana yuh does hit hard boy. That opening line was gold! And the part about waiting for the tide to come in . That was some real crass behaviour even for Smith. The definition of “wrong and strong”. He deserves whatever he has coming to him. His wife should take him to the cleaners and he should be relieved of his post. He should have kept his mouth shut and hope it blows away. That statement he put out should sink him.

  16. everybody saying it’s not your business we as a society accepts too much bull shit. the right thing could never be the wrong thing. when would our Men in Trinidad and Tobago step up and do right by the vows they made. only breaking up their homes for selfish gains.

    • You see men can be unfaithful and it’s ok ,for a woman is death.

    • he divorce or seperated a long time ago

    • it doesn’t matter your comment still holds no value to me because today society doesn’t understand the definition of a vow.

    • Tranda, he filed for divorce but the divorce isn’t final yet. So she is not his “ex wife”. Not yet.

    • Doing right by the Vows “they” made cannot be the remedy for making an unhappy marriage (regardless of the reasons) a happy one. Persons have the right to move on in circumstances where a relationship becomes unworkable, so let’s not delude ourselves Tranda. The problem I see is the way in which it is done. The overriding objective should always be the interest of the children which certainly doesn’t mean remaining together when parties are unhappy to do so. It’s called hypocrisy not “doing right by the vow they take”.

    • first to begin Stephen Wilson I don’t care what no body has to say I stand by my words. Secondly Marriage is a huge step one should never just rushed into because like I stated it’s a life long commitment . sworn to love and cherish in all things before God and man. In doing so if Man (Human beings ) will place focus on thier marriage and stop look for the next best thing their marriages would last. hypocrisy my ass you don’t bring innocent children into this world and put your dick first. long where the days when Men knew the definition of being a man. Society disgust me , we hold nothing of value anything and everything goes and we always have a plaster for every sore. Again marriage is no joke if you don’t plan on standing by your vows until death do us part do not even entertain the though and leave ppl girl children alone.

    • School them Tranda Boo your comment is on point.

    • Correct Tranda Boo men always see themselves first

    • Brandon Cadore I still don’t care oui!. An as a man that holds status in society he isn’t setting a good example for our young men in Trinidad and Tobago. when would we make it our business to build back the true meaning of family. As far as I am concerned when you in John public ?expect critic.

    • Tranda Boo wish I could shake your hands the young people today only get married for style and within a few years they want divorce they not talking pattern from the older people who you see celebrate all 30 close to 40 years of marriage

    • People of the world today choose lust and vanity over love and lotalty. Tranda Boo i salute u girl i could not have said it better. They glorify infidelity and being disloyal. People take these things lightly do they even consider what social emmotional and mental issues these things bring about. Not everyone can cope some people are destroyed their lives destroyed, children left dysfunctional and traumatised. So be causual all u want about the breakdown of family life and morals. People’s values have now changed based on the new norms created by society and globalisation and what the see on the internet. People have become cold and self absorbed.

    • Tranda Boo, you must be delusional. So you’re saying that if a person for whatever reason has changed in their behavior or treatment of or towards you for the worst or perhaps to your you should stay with them till death do you part……that is utter MADNESS.
      I’m hoping that you feel this way because you may have been brought up in a household where this was the norm, but society has changed and not all for the better in some ways depending on your prospective in life.

    • I feel sorry for the children. He clearly not thinking about them.. no probs if you want a divorce but sort them out so the children dont have to suffer.

    • Brian George being delusional has nothing to do with what I have stated ,you may not agree with me but I really don’t care two flying @#!×% about what you or anyone else thinks because just like you I am entitled to my opinion and my family up bringing has nothing to do with how I feel in fact my parents are divorced. I no where stated if a woman is being abused and mistreated she should be silent and stay. in fact infidelity is grounds for divorce both by law and on the religious aspects. What I was in fact stating just to make it clear that the petty shit we divorce for impacts our family especially children. Men go on the outside of their marriages for what! ?. Most times they have 80%of what they need and rather chase that 20% outside. whyyyyyy would you even get married to an abuser or even entertain marriage if the ultimate goal isn’t a lifetime . It goes back to my comments earlier marriage shouldn’t be rush it. It is should be a decision made by 2 adults willing to accept flaws and all. filled with love , understanding, communication ,patience etc. A foundation that is supposed to be built on what ever God you serve. The burning desire to attain and achieve whatever goals one might set out . Willing to go through life’s hardship together. Not to run with the latest thot when she gains a few pounds or can’t cook like your mother. So EASY HUMAN!

    • Brian George you are so correct society has changed but always remember and this is what most have forgotten and not instilled into their children allowing society to dictate their lives … God’s morale law and his word stands fast forever. Let us never forget the principles and standards we ought to be living by and it is much higher than any of society ways and laws of today. Peace

  17. If the man and he wife finish what that have to do with all your ??

  18. I hope Miss Lady stay with him when he not blinging as a minister anymore smh

  19. Shame on you Mr. Smith.. the woman mother 4 children for you an she would have made a lot of sacrifices for you while you work your way up to become who you are today.. An as soon as you get power this is how you repay her.. remember God doh sleep eh…

  20. Did his statement say he was kicking the kids out the house?

  21. Kyon Esdelle
    This should answer some of your questions

  22. That CCTV camera has to be in a public place not many ppl place cameras inside their homes.
    It seems he get caught. Poor fella, not that smart.

  23. “Smith also neglected to mention in his statement that the romantic interlude with his former employee…..was taking place in the house that he shares, at present, with his wife while she was out”

  24. Uh always find ppl defending the wrong one, think about the one who injustice is done too,she dam right leave his ass and take care of ur children, see who will take care of him, his mistress no way

  25. Step down and go sort out yuh family life. Yuh children too young. They doh need this kind of scandal.

  26. Who’s business is this his or the public most of you who’s commenting I hope they take a good look in the mirror I’m not defending him but his business is his business if the wife could put it out there she’s studying herself and not the kids I know you’re hurting but it’s always good to use wisdom.

  27. Imagine a Minister having a divorce and is throwing his wife and children out of the mariterial house–please –not in this day and age –he living the the 18 centry or what –women have rights –especially those who have children with in the home–

  28. Disgusting dog ,using state funds to do your crap. He should be fired first thing

  29. Imagine I see people defending this classless idiot of an MP

  30. JESUS coming soon why people don’t study that when judgement day everyman have to answer for themselves

  31. Something wrong with some people, is that your business that is y ,some people cannot move forward in life, only living in other people business smh.

  32. Having gone to school with his wife and I know her to be a person of integrity, Mr. Smith really feels his soon to be ex-wife is that petty, knowing that the outcome of this will only hurt her children in the long run! BWS! (Big Watery Steups)!

  33. Darryl Smith, karma is a bitch eh, no respect for ur wife and four children.

  34. This article have me cussing, I once asked a supporter of his where the hell they find he, in local sport for 40 years and I never heard of he, and he come and start all that shit. Why could we not have had Amery Browne, he disgusts me. From his appointed people to all the shit he has done. I rarely comment but this PNM Minister is the worst.

  35. Darryl forgets that some of us remember Kate.

  36. Smith threatens to evict wife and mother of his four children–Courts not going to put mother and 4 children out of a home—no matter how much $$$ or influence you may have—Is he who will be looking for lodgings –SOON

  37. Sex lies and videotape Updated 2017 PG-13 edition

  38. Somebody need to sue allyuh ass then this shit will stop

  39. I am sorry but he was using state funds to run outside woman he’s got to go.

  40. Does the fool know that even though the court grants his divorce it takes 6 months to get finalized?

  41. Imagine they remove Dr Brown for this fellow

    • Sorry to say, but how many persons in this administration have anything close to integrity? How many so far have been tainted by the stain of corruption yet still warming seats and collecting salaries?
      I recall there was some hullabaloo about his removal because constituents liked him, but the screening committee did not give him the nod.
      Ironically enough, it was under the PP that Diego Martin got this new highway that greatly alleviates traffic, although the PNM is proud to boast of their decades of representation.
      They also got rid of Penny too, but that’s just me.

    • Nah. The Diego Martin highway started under the PNM. If anything the PP slowed work on it and it was opened either just at the end of their term or around the start of the PNM term. Similar to how those Victoria Keys buildings started under Manning and languished for years under the PP. Only to be resumed and completed under the PNM.

  42. This is the only article that reported the truth.

  43. Not again.Let the man sort out his issues.4 children involved.

  44. Damn, Darryl!

    Like you should romance drama and bacchanal instead? Clearly they are the ones truly enamoured with you. Discretion is the better part of valour but it seems Smith is about as discrete as a loud, smell fart in an elevator with only two people in it…

  45. Them fellas have it sweet… why am I taking the comment about “waiting for the tide to come in” and relating it to beached whale.

  46. Are these people for real? Steups!

  47. Bananas and other fruits aplenty in this Republic!!!

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